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Minh's avatar

Love this so much Syd :)

Couldn't say I am in the same boat yet but I am trying to get there as well. Freedom to be yourself fully is so liberating and I hope you will get there soon enough with your wellness coaching aspiration

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You're an excellent writer Syd! I found myself typing your words as I was reading so I can see your prose at a better level. A few of my reactions:

1. "What was limiting my time? A self-created timetable of how long I had before I needed to get a new job. A well-paying, highly-competitive, desk-bound corporate job. A job deemed socially acceptable by my culture, one that loves to ask “what do you do?” at a party, second only to asking your name."

I resonate so much with this! A lot of the "pressure" we feel is actually fake (I know, crazy right?), meaning it's not real. I'm glad you realized this ("self-created"). And now at parties — when I get asked what I do — I tell them "I'm a world traveler." And leave it at that. It's usually quite fun. But that's who I am!

2. "Decisions are coming easily. I used to be terrible at making decisions. It turns out decisions are a lot easier when I stop searching for the answers outside myself."

I feel the same way!!! I used to be very indecisive but ever since I started to trust myself — decisions became easy. Crazy how that works. Maybe this deserves a second piece.

I'm glad I met you through Foster. Best luck with writing and health coaching! Cheers, Leo

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